Boyfriend Troubles

So, I have been dating this guy for over a year now. It is definitely not the best relationship. We have our problems. One of the biggest is that he is a 31 year old frat boy that refused to grow up. This puts a strain on this 35 year old adult who only occasionally acts likes she is 21.

So the latest trouble AJ has found is this: Last week AJ called and said he was going to come over. We live very close to each other so if he does not it is rather strange. So, at 3am he still had not shown up and I was irritated but not worried. Because I was up, I also noticed that there were a few police vehicles parked outside. Unusual for my neighborhood which had me a little concerned but I figured it was nothing and went back to bed.

The next morning I noticed that AJ had not come home. His car was not there. (When I say we live very close, I mean we are neighbors). Now I was a bit worried. I texted him right away. Nothing. I called and it went straight to voicemail. Now I am worried. I try again and again all morning. Nothing. I check with one of his friends. They know nothing, if they did, they did not tell me. One even tried to convince me to break up with AJ. NOT NOW!!!!

All day I am worried that something bad happened to AJ. Did the police have something to do with it? Was he arrested, hurt or dead? Finally, I decided to go home and once there I see that he is leaving with one of his friends. He texts me right away to say that his car was towed. Okayyyyy?

Later that night he tells me via text that his car was used in a chase and that the cops towed it and were trying to find out who the driver was. AJ knows nothing. He was not in the car. He won't say who was. It is all a mystery to me. I just know that he is too old to be in situations such as this. Really? Who does this?

So, now a week later AJ has his car back and he needs to take it in for new rims. He wants to take my spare so he can drive it there. Ok. Except that he is not getting it done around here. Nooooo, he is taking it somewhere a few hours away and he plans to be gone the entire weekend. So my thought is NO. You cannot use my spare. I need it. Well I think I do. Because if I don't have it I will most assuredly get a flat. If I have it I will not.

So as today winds to a close... AJ has new rims on his car and I did not have to give up my spare. He is a bit miffed at me but he will get over it. He usually does.

Oh, and I rather not know the entire story from the other night. I don't think I could handle it.