The End- The final break-up.

I have finally done it. I have let go. I am free.
This past Saturday was truly my Independence Day.

After more than a year with AJ I have finally decided it needed to end. It was not easy and it is still heartbreaking but it is the right thing to do. After a stupid fight over a camera (he wants to buy it from me or really he wants me to give it to him) I finally declared the end. I got the key to my house back and walked away with as much dignity as I could muster. Considering it was raining, he was in his car and I was outside, I am not sure how much dignity. I probably looked a little crazy.

So here are the top 10 reasons to stay broken up. (And why did I stay with him for so long????)
1. He is a liar
2. He is a drunk
3. When drunk he can get violent (never with me...he just tries to be a tough guy)
4. He is a freeloader (lives with ex-girlfriend and doesn't pay rent)
5. Lives with ex-girlfriend
6. Legal troubles - was arrested for battery, incident with police (see previous post)
7. Has built walls taller than the Great Wall of China
8. Commitment-phobe
9. He is selfish
10. He is a CHEATER

Reasons to get back together:
1. My dog loves him and he is a great dog sitter
2. He is great in bed.
3. He can make me laugh
4. uhh...ummm...he is great in bed
5. uhhh...i got nothing else

This is the end. No getting back together. It is time to move on and be free. To become a happier version of me; in a few months...

(And as I write this, he texts me. Not to say sorry or I want to see you. Nope, its about the damn camera he wants to buy from me.)